HOW TO CHOOSE A HYPNOTHERAPIST
To entrust something you value into the care of a stranger is a big deal. So it’s important that you take the time to find the right person to trust with that most precious of all things – YOU.
There’s no law that prevents anyone from setting themselves up in business and calling themselves a hypnotherapist, so it’s important that you take what measures you can to ensure that you aren’t about to hand your hard-earned money over to a charlatan and invite them to poke around your personal issues – no matter how charming and professional they seem.
How to choose a hypnotherapist: four things to consider
Do you feel comfortable talking to the hypnotherapist?
What training has the hypnotherapist done?
What are the hypnotherapist’s professional affiliations?
Does the hypnotherapist’s approach suit your needs?
Do you feel comfortable talking to the hypnotherapist?
There’s a lot to be said for going with your gut instinct when choosing a hypnotherapist. Take a look around the websites of several within travelling distance and get a feel for what sort of issues they seem to take an interest in working with. Most well-trained hypnotherapists will be qualified to deal with a wide range of problems and behaviours, but some also choose to specialise.
After finding a few that you have a good feeling about, the best thing you can do is get on the phone to them (or send an email if you’re more comfortable introducing yourself that way) and just have an initial chat. Therapy works best when the relationship between hypnotherapist and client is good, so don’t be afraid to ask as many questions as you need to gauge how comfortable you feel about working with them.
What training has the hypnotherapist done?
There are a huge amount of training institutions and individuals purporting to offer qualifications in hypnotherapy. Some of these run for just one weekend, some last a year or longer. As a general rule of thumb, the shorter the course the lighter the training. Anyone can set up their own private practice as a hypnotherapist without any training or qualification whatsoever, so you do need to be somewhat vigilant as to your potential therapist’s background.
The only qualification that currently exists that has been externally accredited is the Hypnotherapy Practitioner Diploma (look for HPD after the therapist’s name). This exam is accredited by the National Council for Hypnotherapists (NCH) and NCFE National Awarding Body and conforms with national occupational standards for hypnotherapy. So when considering how to choose a hypnotherapist, if they hold the HPD, like I do, then you can be assured that they have undertaken training to the highest standard available in the UK.
Who are their professional affiliations?
Hypnotherapy, like other complementary therapies, has been largely unregulated in the past. The closest we’ve got to ensuring standards and ethics are being upheld in the interest of public safety is the NCH. Those who are registered with the NCH have all agreed to conform to their Code of Ethics as well as undertake Continued Professional Development throughout their careers.
Registration with the Complementary and Natural Health Council (CNHC) also shows that the hypnotherapist has met national occupational standards and agree to abide by a strict code of conduct.
Is their approach right for you?
When considering how to choose a hypnotherapist, you’ll notice that there seem to be many ‘types’ of hypnotherapists out there. A lot of therapists like to call themselves ‘clinical’ hypnotherapists, which sounds great but doesn’t mean much really as all hypnotherapists use hypnosis in a clinical setting – so we are all clinical hypnotherapists! Other therapists might have a particular interest in past life regression, or Freudian hypno-analysis, for instance, which might not be right for you, so always phone and talk through your concerns before deciding to start treatment with them. I am a Cognitive Hypnotherapist in Colchester, and you can find out more about that here.
SOME COMMON FEARS AND MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT HYPNOTHERAPY AND HYPNOSIS
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Will I be asleep?
No. Hypnosis is not sleep. You will be aware of everything that’s going on. It’s common for people new to hypnotherapy to think that it’s ‘not working’, because they are still aware of everything. That’s not true.
Many of the techniques we will explore together make use of only a very light trance, sometimes just a conversational trance. You may not even be aware that we are working in a trance state, but at any point in which you are deeply focused on either what I am saying or what you are thinking or talking about, you will likely be in a light trance. You can find out more about trance states and hypnotherapy here and here (National Council for Hypnotherapy external website).
During some techniques, however, you may become so deeply relaxed that you fall into a light sleep. This is a different state to hypnosis and is likely only to last for a very brief time before you wake up naturally.
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Will I forget what happens while I’m hypnotised?
No. Modern hypnotherapy, including the work that I will do with you, is conducted while you are in a light trance state. Most people know exactly what’s going on almost all of the time when they are in this state. While you might not remember afterwards every word that I have said to you, you will be aware of everything at the time and you will remember every part of the hypnotherapy process. In the unlikely event of my saying something to you while in this relaxed state that you were not happy or comfortable with, you would be able to object to it immediately.
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Will I lose control?
No. I don’t have the power to make you do anything against your will. My role in hypnotherapy is to guide you through the therapeutic process towards a positive outcome. You will participate in every step along the way, always in control as to whether you want to stop or continue.
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Will I cluck like a chicken?
No. Well, not unless you want to! Stage hypnotists only appear to have this power over people because they have selected extremely suggestible people to demonstrate on, usually extroverts, who want to go along with that type of experience. At no point will clucking like a chicken be beneficial to your hypnotherapy, so we will avoid it. Unless, of course, it would be beneficial to your therapy… but only you can tell me that.
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Will I reveal my darkest secrets?
No. And unless they are beneficial to the hypnotherapy, I don’t really want to know them! Your secrets will remain secret. Any information you do tell me will be totally of your own free will, and will remain confidential.
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Only gullible people can be hypnotised, right?
Wrong! There is a big difference between gullibility and suggestibility All hypnosis is really self-hypnosis. I am simply guiding you to relax yourself, and asking you to follow my instructions and suggestions. I can’t force you to do it, or do it for you. Actually, people who are willing to try out new ideas and are open to new experiences usually see better results from hypnotherapy.
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Will I get stuck in hypnosis?
Absolutely not. You will always wake up out of hypnosis. Of course, the trance state is a very pleasant state to be in, and you may choose to stay in it for a few moments longer than necessary. But that would be your choice.