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Hypnotherapy for Anxiety, Overthinking and Control

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Hypnotherapy for Anxiety, Overthinking and Control

High achievers often live with a kind of invisible anxiety. It hides beneath organisation, planning and competence. On the surface, life looks structured and productive. Underneath, the mind is constantly scanning for what might go wrong. The body stays tense even during rest, and thoughts circle endlessly, rehearsing conversations or anticipating outcomes.

This state can be exhausting. It creates the illusion of control, yet rarely delivers real calm. Hypnotherapy helps loosen this grip by teaching the mind and body how to feel safe without constant vigilance.


Why anxiety and control go together

Anxiety and control are two sides of the same coin. The more anxious you feel, the more you try to manage everything. The more you try to manage everything, the more anxious you become. This loop can run for years without anyone noticing how much energy it consumes.

For many professionals, control has been a route to safety since childhood. Doing things properly, anticipating problems and staying prepared once protected them from uncertainty. Over time, those useful strategies harden into habits that the nervous system no longer knows how to switch off.

Hypnotherapy helps by updating the old association between control and safety. Through guided relaxation and imagery, the subconscious learns that calm can exist without everything being perfectly managed.


The problem with overthinking

Overthinking feels like problem-solving, but it is really problem-rehearsing. The mind keeps spinning ideas in the hope that one of them will neutralise discomfort. Instead, the repeated thinking keeps the stress cycle alive.

In hypnosis, the mind has space to slow down. It moves from analysing to observing. Thoughts can pass without being chased. This experience teaches the brain a new response to uncertainty. You begin to realise that clarity does not come from thinking harder, but from thinking less.


Calming the nervous system

Chronic anxiety keeps the body in a state of readiness. Muscles tighten, breathing shortens, and digestion slows. The body forgets how to relax. Hypnotherapy directly engages the parasympathetic nervous system, the part responsible for rest and recovery.

During a session, the therapist guides you into a calm and focused state. Breathing deepens, heart rate steadies, and the body remembers what safety feels like. With practice, this becomes a learned response that you can access outside therapy too.

When the body begins to trust relaxation, the mind follows. Calm becomes familiar rather than foreign.


Letting go without losing control

Letting go of control does not mean becoming careless. It means recognising the difference between influence and over-responsibility. You can plan, prepare and take action while still allowing space for life to unfold.

Hypnotherapy helps you experience that balance directly. By rehearsing calm attention in a relaxed state, the subconscious mind begins to release its grip. The world stops feeling like something that must be held together through effort. It becomes something you can move through with steadiness and flexibility.


Freedom from inner tension

Many clients describe the relief of realising they no longer have to monitor everything. They notice silence where there used to be noise, rest where there used to be strain. Over time, this shift changes how they think, speak and act. Productivity becomes easier because it is no longer driven by fear.

Anxiety loses its hold not because it has been defeated, but because it no longer finds fuel in constant control.

If you would like to understand more about how hypnotherapy helps high achievers manage anxiety, overthinking and control, you can read the full guide here.

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Stress Awareness Month (hypnotherapy for stress)

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Under pressure: why modern life keeps us stressed and how hypnotherapy can help

It creeps in quietly, often disguised as productivity. It tells us to keep going, to push through, to reply to that one last email at midnight. It’s there in the clenched jaw, the shallow breathing, the mind that won’t switch off. Stress is no longer a fleeting response to challenge – it has become, for many, a constant companion.

April is Stress Awareness Month, a campaign that began in 1992 and remains as urgent as ever. In an age of burnout, economic uncertainty, digital overwhelm, and post-pandemic recovery, stress has gone mainstream. According to the Mental Health Foundation, 74% of UK adults have felt so stressed at some point in the past year that they felt overwhelmed or unable to cope.

So what are we actually talking about when we talk about stress?

The biology of being overwhelmed

Stress, in its original form, is not the villain. It’s a vital survival mechanism – the body’s way of preparing to face danger. Adrenaline surges, cortisol rises, and our system is primed for action. This fight-or-flight response was useful on the savannah. But in the modern world, the threats are less about sabre-toothed tigers and more about deadlines, social media, bills, or not being able to find childcare before your 9am meeting.

The trouble begins when stress becomes chronic. Our nervous system, wired for short bursts of action, is not built for prolonged activation. Over time, high cortisol levels are linked to anxiety, depression, digestive issues, sleep disturbance, cardiovascular problems, and a weakened immune response. In short, the body keeps the score.

Stress can also distort our cognitive function. It shrinks the brain’s prefrontal cortex – the part responsible for planning, decision-making, and self-regulation – while strengthening the amygdala, the fear centre. That means we become more reactive, less rational, and stuck in survival mode.

Why modern stress feels different

In many ways, today’s stressors are uniquely insidious. They are often invisible, ongoing, and socially normalised. We wear busyness as a badge of honour. Our phones blur the boundaries between work and rest. We rarely fully switch off.

And stress isn’t evenly distributed. Financial insecurity, housing instability, caregiving responsibilities, and workplace discrimination all intensify the burden. The cost-of-living crisis in the UK has made mental wellbeing harder to access just as people need it more. The “pull yourself together” culture still looms large, making it difficult for many to seek help.

As public awareness grows, so does the need for practical, accessible solutions. This is where hypnotherapy – often misunderstood and underused – deserves a second look.

Hypnotherapy for stress: beyond stage tricks and swinging watches

Despite popular misconceptions, modern hypnotherapy has little to do with clucking like a chicken on stage. At its core, hypnotherapy is a guided process that helps individuals enter a deeply relaxed state – known as a trance – where the mind becomes more receptive to positive suggestion and emotional processing.

Crucially, trance is not a loss of control. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Most people remain fully aware of what’s being said and retain complete control throughout the session. The process simply quietens the critical, analytical mind to allow deeper mental and emotional shifts.

From a neuroscientific perspective, hypnosis engages the brain’s default mode network, a region associated with daydreaming, reflection, and imagination. This relaxed, inward-focused state helps recalibrate the nervous system, regulate emotions, and access inner resources that can feel unavailable during times of stress.

What does hypnotherapy for stress look like in practice?

A hypnotherapy session for stress might involve several techniques:

  • Progressive relaxation to calm the body and signal safety to the nervous system

  • Breathwork and guided imagery to bring the mind into a parasympathetic state (rest and digest)

  • Suggestion therapy to plant new, empowering beliefs around coping, confidence, and calm

  • Regression or parts work (where appropriate) to resolve unresolved triggers beneath the stress

Sessions are typically tailored to the individual – there is no one-size-fits-all script. Some clients need help with sleep, others with racing thoughts or emotional overwhelm. For many, it’s a combination of all three.

Over time, hypnotherapy can help rewire stress responses. Instead of reacting with tension or panic, clients learn to respond with clarity, calm, and choice.

The evidence

While hypnotherapy is still underrepresented in mainstream mental health services, research into its effectiveness is growing. Studies have shown that hypnosis can significantly reduce anxiety, improve sleep quality, and lower stress-related symptoms. A 2019 meta-analysis published in the journal Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews found that hypnosis produces medium-to-large effects for anxiety reduction, often outperforming control treatments.

There’s also increasing interest in how hypnotherapy supports self-regulation – the ability to soothe oneself during times of distress. In a world that constantly demands our attention and energy, this skill is invaluable.

A quieter mind in a noisy world

In many ways, stress is a reasonable response to an unreasonable world. But that doesn’t mean we are powerless.

Hypnotherapy doesn’t promise to eliminate external pressures – the job, the bills, the news cycle – but it can change how you respond to them. It gives people a space to slow down, breathe, and remember that calm is still available.

As Stress Awareness Month invites us to take stock of our mental health, perhaps it’s time to stop pushing through and start tuning in. Whether through hypnotherapy or other forms of support, one thing is clear: we can’t afford to treat stress as the price of a busy life. We need tools that help us live better – not just cope.

For hypnotherapy for stress contact info@victoriawardhypnotherapy.com

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Breathing Exercises for Flying Anxiety

When we panic or feel anxious, our breathing gets shallow and fast. The sensation of this alone can cause us to feel even more panicked. There are various different breathing exercises that you can try, to find which one helps to reduce your panic. Being familiar with one of these, so that you can use it if you begin to feel uncomfortable, is one of the easiest ways of calming yourself down as you wait for your flight, or become nervous in the air. Try them out, and pick one that fits well with you. Then take time to practice it for a few moments each day so that if you need to use the pattern, it will come naturally to you.

7-11 breathing

Here you exhale fully, then breathe in all the way down to the bottom of your tummy while counting up to 7. Now exhale long and slow, while counting at the same pace but this time to eleven. This forces your exhale to be extended longer than your inhale, mimicking the natural relaxed breathing rate that we do when we are calm and comfortable. Repeat.

Box Breathing

Exhale fully to the count of four as you imagine drawing a line up one side of a square. Inhale fully to the count of four as you imagine drawing the line across the top of the square. Exhale fully to the count of four as you imagine drawing the line down the other side of the square. Inhale fully to the count of four as you imagine drawing the fourth line to complete the bottom of the square. Repeat.

Candle Breathing

Inhale fully and deeply. Now imagine that you are gently breathing out over a candle flame. Not enough to make it go out, but just enough to make it dance around. Picturing the candle flame will help to distract you from the panic.

Alternatives to deep breathing for fear of flying anxiety

Take a read of the short article I have written on the use of peripheral vision to maintain a feeling of calm.

Learn a self-help technique such as Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT or ‘tapping’), which I can teach you if you contact me on 07813 251 152, or info@victoriawardhypnotherapy.com, or use the contact form on my site here.